The important thing isn't getting what you think you want,
it's looking at what you actually get
and learning something from it.
On this page, I will share with you some tried and tested practical ways to transform your life for the better if you feel the need to do so.
Whether you're sick of your job, lacking confidence or simply stuck in a rut with no clear idea of the direction you would prefer to go in, this is a section which might interest you.
To transform your life, a very powerful way to start is by developing a vibrant vision of the life you choose to create and then looking at practical ways in which you can work towards that vision via your personalised life ladder.
Transform your life with the Life Ladder Exercise
Maitreya's Garden, North Clifton, UK
When we have no real idea of what we want and where we want to go, we tend to get what we are given and end up being dragged along or stuck in a rut.
If you are fed up with drifting aimlessly, feeling unfulfilled or overwhelmed by the stuff life throws at you, and you would like to feel a little more in charge of your own destiny; click on the picture to download a free eBook (as a printable PDF file) that could help you to get back into the driving seat.
You can also find 10 top tips for transforming your life in the Mind section of this website.
Do you want to be successful?
"Success" is a strange word. It's a nominalisation - a word that means very different things to different people. To some, it might be all to do with money and having a house with a swimming pool and a fleet of fast cars, while to others it might be raising a family to the best of our ability, or achieving qualifications, or bringing peace between nations or making someone happy.
Perhaps there is no such thing as success, as a thing in itself; its just a word to represent a whole host of different aspirations that each of us may have. Whatever you set your heart on achieving in this lifetime, perhaps something you read on this website will help you to take some steps towards your goal. And once you have set that goal, maybe you can let it be and just get on with living and appreciating your life in this moment.
The latest additions to this section look at how to find fulfillment by doing the work we were born to do and how we can expand our comfort zones and "boldly go" where we never thought we could... and feel at home there.
How to find fulfillment and success by doing what you love to do
Hotei. Purelands, North Clifton. UK
If you are currently feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied with the work you are doing, you might like to click on the picture to download a free ebook:
"Finding the Work You Love - How to Find Fulfillment and Success by Doing What You Love to Do and Being What You Choose to Be"
This is another printable PDF file with exercises that can help you to gain a fresh perspective and change your life for the better.
Still to come: "Just Supposing I Could..." If you could go outside your comfort zones once in a while, what would you be doing differently?